Don't be flattered by a married man

I've noticed that single women involved with married men happens all the time.

I don't think it's just for the sex. I believe it's because these women get emotionally involved. The married man tells her things she wants to her. He makes her feel important. She develops feelings for him. Many times, it goes beyond that. The single woman involved with the married man starts to wish that he was her husband.

As a single woman, I do not get involved with married men. Period. As a Christian it goes again my religion. Even if I wasn't a Christian, it is wrong.

For the single women that are involved with a married man, they need to break all ties. This man isn't going to leave his wife unless he has no choice. Meaning his wife kicks his rear end to the curb. Besides that, why would you want a life long relationship with a cheater? It won't change just because he's with you.

Where do these married men find the women they cheat with? Ten or fifteen years ago, it was usually at work or because of work. Men and women working together breeds familiarity. For the men that spent a lot of time on the road, well there was plenty of chance and opportunity.

These days there is the internet.

Some men on the internet portray themselves as single men. If you meet and date someone off the internet, don't just hop into bed with them. Take the time to get to know them.

Getting involved with a married man is going to end in heartbreak somewhere down the road. Probably not for the married guy that's out cheating. More than likely, it will be for the wife and children. It's sad.

A married man is not a single woman's problem. He's off limits. He's another woman's husband and that means hands off.

As a single woman online, I've had married men attempt to hit on me. Some are pushier than others. There is always the ignore or block button. If you are on a place that doesn't support that, sometimes you have to be really firm. I've had married men to give me all the sob stories such as "My wife doesn't like sex" or "I'm going to be separated just as soon as A, B, and C happens." My response? Tell it to your wife. There is no way I would ever consider it. If the man pushes beyond that, I just flat out tell them not to contact me online anymore.

At the end of the day, all I can think is I'm glad he's not my husband!

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